Dating is a beautiful stage of a relationship where two people meet and interact verbally. Where people get to discover each other and there is a verbal intimate interaction between the two. The more each individual interacts, additional understanding generates. There are many purposes of dating for different individuals like
❖ When two independent individual meets with a setup to make a beautiful journey together for a long way and not give up on each other in any situation. Sometimes, it may not work as we think but, not giving up on each other quality makes the bond so strong that it’s too hard to be broken.
❖ There can be another purpose as well like, physical bonding for a particular period of time which sometimes also leads to a long-term relationship as sole can’t get over each other.
❖ Some relationship just starts without thinking much about what’s going to come in the future, we just fell for each other. We can’t just claim a single type of bonding or relationship it differs according to a situation or any other reason like peer pressure, social pressure…...etc. In today’s arena, it’s common to get in a relationship as the meaning of love is changing according to the needs and situation. Each lone wants to show their friends that they’re in a relationship (this kind of relationship is generally for a particular point of time because the bonding is not real it’s just a fake relation between individuals to show others and make them feel insecure about it.) whereas some relationships are based only on physical needs.
The true meaning of love: -
Love is the pure and natural bond where both individuals pose the same kind of effort to enhance their relationship. Here both sole creates an understanding for their partner and both individuals adore each other. A true relationship is that, where you respect each other’s time, work, efforts, emotions, motivates and appraise their achievements, cares about your partner, and stands throughout with that person during his/her difficult times (this is the most important phase to know whether a person really cares for you and will stand by you in future). A bond of love or relationship can’t be explained in a single sentence, it’s hard to explain this pure bond of love but not impossible to cooperate and make it work in a beautiful way. After a point of time, there is much more than physical intimacy is required like:
UNDERSTANDING
Understanding plays the most indispensable (important) role in any relationship to work. There are many situations when we only have to understand our partner’s situation and let go of many things. The person who loves you may give you less time but, the time that he/she spends with you will be the most sparkling and joyful moment for both sole. Understanding the financial, social, and many more situations of your partner and reacting for your needs according to their condition creates beautiful liaison (communication or cooperation which facilitate a close working relationship), it also makes your bond stronger. Always be thankful for true love and respect your relationship to create the unbreakable bond ever. Sometimes, understanding your partner’s feelings without expressing them is also important. Not to lose someone who stands by you at hard times.
REACTIONS
Reactions play a vital role not only in a relationship between different sex or life partner, it also plays a crucial role in the bond you share with every person like friends, parents, society…. etc. Many often your facial expression has a far more vivid message than your words so, it’s important to hold your reactions in an appropriate way while interacting. We should know the mental and emotional state of the other person as well before just claiming anything which might hurt others.
❖ There may be fights, misunderstandings between the two soles but if there is understanding, love, purity, caring nature, companionship in any relation then many misunderstandings can be solved easily and the relationship can get a smoother turn. Any fight which creates distance between two soles also makes you think about the beauty of your relationship importance of that person in your life.
❖ Sometimes there are many relationships where we have to give up like any relationship which is getting violent or taking an ugly turn, lots of miscommunication, where we feel pressurized more than the feeling of love and respect in this case it’s important to give up so that you can discover your own life in an enhanced way and both individuals can lead their life according to their wants. Therefore, it’s important for each individual to earn their own living in a relationship so that the independent individual can take the required steps without any hesitation or hindrance
INSECURITY
Insecurity or jealousy is one of the common facts that most relationships face. Insecurity can be for good and it may prove bad in some circumstances as well. It might lead to cause a variety of uncomfortable feelings or emotions. Mainly the feeling which arises due to insecurity leads to stress, anxiety, dependency or it may also lead to supremacy over your partner. Generally, we do those things that will give you the feeling of security or a kind of satisfaction in your mind. For instance, when a girl feels insecure with any other girl or finds their partner with someone else who may look pretty, then girls try to do makeovers so that they can stand up amongst all and look better than another girl. Sometimes insecurity can go another way, if you share your feelings of being jealous with your partner it sometimes makes them feel good because these are the feelings that arise for our close ones. Some relationships like their partners to feel insecure so that there could be a certainty of a cute bond or cute silly fights for your bond while many feel that why should their partner hinders into their life or why can’t they live their life as an independent individual.
